Sunday, March 11, 2012

Asherisms and Recent Life

What with pregnancy, Dan's crazy school schedule, my crazy writing schedule, and Asher keeping me busy, it's been a busy few months! I got to go to an awesome writing conference and meet a bunch of great writing friends.

I'll be adding flashbacks to fun events over the next few weeks, but here are some general and more recent updates (mostly featuring Asher, of course).

After getting the original Star Wars trilogy for Dan for Christmas, it's Asher who has been obsessed with it. For a while, he was requesting to "watch-a Star Wars?" every day. He started quoting the lines, too. "Come with me," he told me one day, beckoning with his finger. "Power of-a dark side." He also likes running around yelling, "Open-a blast doors!" while waving a light saber or "pew-pew" (blaster). We have frequent light saber battles, and he uses the force to zap people/things. His grandma got him some action figures, and he picked up 3PO and said, "3PO!" Then he picked up Han Solo. "2PO?" he asked. He also calls Yoda "Yodot." His favorite character, though, is Darth Vader. He puts towels on his head and runs around breathing like him. He even picked out a Darth Vader book at the bookstore. It's been a hoot!


He loves ABC's, and points them out on every sign we ever see. He can also count to four when I ask him to count things. He's still working on colors; he gets yellow and green right most of the time, and recently added black to that. However, anything else is almost always "green."

We suspected it for a while, but as he gets older we've seen that he is the most sensitive and tender-hearted kid. He's always gotten sad when other kids cry, but he expresses a lot more than that now. He's constantly coming up to me and Dan if we're upset and asking, "Alright? Need a hug?" He did this a lot when I would throw up from the pregnancy (though at first, he thought it was funny and actually copied me.) He gets concerned if his stuffed animals get hurt, and kisses them better. For the first time, he pushed someone in nursery when I came to pick him up, and when she cried, he got all sad with her. He hasn't pushed or hit anyone since.

He's still hyperactive, too. I took him to the baptism of one of my cub scouts, and he couldn't sit still. I tried toys, and he played with it too loudly. He kept trying to get into the cupboard doors at the back, saying, "Open-a blast doors!" Then he made everyone laugh during the baptism of the boy and his brother-- when the first boy came out of the water, he cried, "Wow!" After the second baptism, he hollered, "Oh, gosh!"

We did potty training, as well, and he did GREAT. The first few days were long and frustrating and full of towels on the floor and accidents. But by day 3, he caught on. We would tell him to do a "big potty on the toilet," and I guess because dinosaurs are big, he started calling potty a dinosaur. And because he hadn't mastered the color yellow at the time, every time he went on the toilet, he got all excited and shouted, "A green dinosaur!" It took him a bit longer to master #2 on the toilet, but he is now fully potty trained!

He got his first Valentine from his friend London, and he loved it. He opened it and gasped. "Plitty! [pretty]" He then proceeded to take all the stickers off the card and put them on the envelope. :)

He loves reading, and lately he likes to climb in his bed, get a book, and pretend to read to himself. It's too cute! 


He's talking lots more, too, and I love hearing full (or almost full) sentences in his little voice. Some of my favorite things he says:

Buggin' you-- he says this if his eye/ear/nose is bugging him.
shmallows-- marshmallows
polly-polly-- rolly-polly. This is a game of rolling around on the floor
neckaness-- necklace
epadin-- elephant
pokey-- pretzels, because they look like a candy he loves called Pokeys
gay-koo-- thank you.




And here's a cute picture of him eating Oreos, and Daddy teaching him about chopsticks. :)

And, since I've kept up on Facebook better than here, here's a few more updates, Twitter-style!

Asher is trying to write his name on the picture he's coloring. This consists of him making a small scribble and designating it, "A,D,K,P,Y..." Why didn't I think of spelling his name that way? Brilliant.


Had a minor freak-out earlier when Asher wandered in from his room with his hands covered in blood. Apparently he had managed to procure a glass bottle, and then managed to break it. Turned out all that blood was just from one tiny cut-- like paper-cut size. Phew. Still trying to figure out where on earth he found the bottle.


Asher is currently dancing in front of the mirror singing, "Shake-a booty!" I'm currently laughing my head off.


Asher must be feeling better. He picked up his giant foam sword, waved it around, and shouted, "Gardi-sa!" This translates to Wingardium Leviosa.


The Kiddo just kicked me out of his room-- though he offered a cheerful, "I lub you too" before he closed the door in my face.


Asher just pulled out two spoons and two pans. "Come on, Mommy, misking!" 
I sat down to "mix" food with him. 
"Hi," he said. "Ow-a you?" 
Then he took a bite of what he was "misking" and said, "Yummy hot dog! Mommy some?"
I love pretending with my boy!


I just inadvertently taught the Kiddo the word "yoink" by stealing one of his chocolate chips. He's now "yoinking" every chip he eats.


The Kiddo heard a sound from another room and goes, "Oh! I see a noise!"

A New Buddy

I'm just going to jump into things here like I've been faithfully writing all this time... Here's our biggest news since I've been gone!

Back in November, Danny woke up and I said, "Asher has something to tell you."

"Okay."

"Asher," I said, "what's in mommy's belly?"

I'd been training him to say "baby" all morning. Instead, he said, "A buddy!"

That's right. Asher has a new buddy on the way.

When I took the pregnancy test that morning (Tues. Nov. 8), the line showed up almost immediately. I got the same shaky, excited feeling as I did when Asher's test showed positive. Then I got all choked up-- a mix of excited for new baby and just a bit of mourning that Asher wouldn't be my only anymore.

He was hollering for me from his room, so I went in and got him out of bed. I gave him a big hug and whispered, "You'll always be my baby."

While he ate breakfast, I looked up a due date calculator. I laughed when it gave me an estimated due date of July 16, 2012-- the day before my 28th birthday! What a good birthday present that will be. :)

Danny is excited, too. His reaction when Asher hollered about his new buddy: "You're pregnant?" while looking at me in surprise.

I laughed and hugged him, and we talked about the new baby for a while. Danny's sisters are also pregnant and due around the same time-- one with twins! It makes me happy that our kids will have cousins so close to their age.

The first trimester wasn't nearly as bad as Asher's. I didn't have constant nausea or throw up twice a day. I only felt sick if I got hungry, or if I ate too much. However, the nausea lasted a lot longer than the first trimester, and I actually had trouble gaining weight for a while-- I kept losing it, actually. I'm 22 weeks now, though, and it seems to mostly be gone.

I've had a feeling the baby would be a girl, but it wasn't as strong as when I was sure Asher was a boy. However, when we went into the ultrasound, I was right again! We're having a little girl.

I showed Asher one of the ultrasound pictures and said, "Look, it's baby sister!"

"Baby sis-er?"

"Yup."

He grinned. "Baby sis-er mine."

And after much research and deliberation, we've decided to name her Amaya Mei. I brought up Amaya to Danny as a girl option when we were pregnant with Asher, and he's loved it ever since. It's a Japanese name, which means a lot to him since he served his mission there, and means "night rain." We both separately came up with Mei as a middle name, and laughed when we shared our middle name thoughts and they were the same. Mei is also Japanese, and means "bright." I made this picture last night with the kanji for her name.

We can't wait to meet our Amaya Mei!

Sunday, October 30, 2011

Camri's Wedding

Let's rewind the clock to...um...July. Yeah, I'm that far behind.

In addition to some more rollerblading jaunts down the river...






...we also celebrated my little sister Camri's wedding to Larry!

I was one of her bridesmaids, and due to outrageous traffic, was almost LATE for the wedding. I got there just in time, as everyone was lining up. (We'd called to let them know when we were nearly there.) Because she's in love with horses, a little pony was the ring-bearer (the ring was tied in its mane). I accompanied one of the groomsmen who was leading the horse. Sadly, I do not have pictures of this.

Camri was beautiful, and she and Larry are so happy. We spent the afternoon and evening greeting family and friends not seen for a while. Asher loved having so many kids to play with (and animals, too-- there was a little farm just off the reception area).

Camri, Larry, and the groomsmen/groom's friends


Asher playing with some cousins

Dan, my cousin Talitha, and my Aunt Codele and Uncle Dave

My whole family

Camri and Asher
  
Me and my cousin Talitha
Me and my other younger sister, Kylee
   
Kylee, Uncle Dave, and my mom

Kylee and her husband Joey
 
Kylee and Asher feed the goat
 
Camri and Larry read a letter from my brother Preston, who is on his mission
 
Joey, Dan, and my Dad chat
Sadly, Camri and Larry moved away to Virginia, so we don't get to see them much. She's got a great job as a barn manager out there, though, so I'm happy for her. :) I just wish she wasn't in the middle of a cellular/internet dead zone so we could talk more!

And here we have an actual update!

So. Um. Happy October. And September. And I still have updates from August to get to...so let's get rollin'.

Some general updates:

Dan works hard and schools hard. I mommy hard and write hard. We're a little boring like that. Dan's been pulling in some extra hours at work, since I've had fewer hours from work (as a contract employee, I'm kind of at the whim of whatever they give me). However, the last few weeks, I've gotten some bigger projects, so that's been great. I've been exercising more, getting back to my high school love of running, and am up to 2 miles without stopping in 20 minutes while pushing Asher in the stroller. I'm tempted to eventually try for a half-marathon...we'll see.

In my writing world, I finished another draft of my book-- the 4th or 5th, can't remember for sure-- and I'm planning on taking a break from it and writing a NEW book in the month of November. Yup, a book in a month for NAtional NOvel WRiting MOnth. I'm so excited I can hardly breath. :)

As for the mommying stuff...let's just say I think Asher might possibly be the most wonderful child in the world. Yes, he throws some tantrums, and has gotten amazingly whiny lately. But those moments aren't too often, and the rest of him makes up for it.









He's starting to talk more, which is SO fun. The other day, I took off his PJs and before I could put clothes on him, he jumped up and ran out of the room shouting, "I naki!" [naked] I couldn't stop laughing.

He came up to me the other day and pulled my hand (which he does often, while saying, "come on!"), and announced, "Deezee."

"You're dizzy?" I asked, confused.

"No, Deezee."

"..."

"Come on, mommy, Deezee!"

I followed him to his room, where he took out his illustrated Bible, sat in my lap, and announced, "Deezee!" And I realized he was saying Jesus. Talk about making my heart melt.

I also laughed when he heard a sound in the other room and looked up. "Oh!" he said. "I see a noise!"

He's become extremely sensitive to taking care of other little creatures lately, kind of like a daddy in training. One of his trucks crashed into the bed the other day, and he picked it up, patted it and said, "Bonk? Okay?" and kissed it. He also likes combing the hair of various stuffed animals.

For a while, he was obsessed with his Mike Wazowski stuffed animal (first called "Mickey," then called "Owski.") He carried Mike around, giving him bike rides, tucking him into bed and giving him kisses, pretending to feed him "cake" (a wooden block), and holding him up so Mom could take a picture of him. He also informed Mikey he was poopy, and tried to put a diaper on him.




He moved on to Pooh bear next, and gave him some additional tasks-- including that of potty training.

Yes, that would be because we tried potty training. We bought him Cars underwear ("Mayner!" [Mater] he hollered), and he wanted to put them on right away. I laid down blankets to protect the carpet, explained going to the potty and asking Mommy for help, and let him wear the underwear. I asked him every five minutes if he needed to sit on the potty.

Twenty minutes later, he followed me into the kitchen. "Uh oh!" he said. "Waler!" [water]

He didn't seem to understand he made the "water" on the floor. So while I'm still putting him on the potty a few times a day, he's not quite ready for full potty training yet.

And last but not least, he's become quite the singer. He sings nonsense words along with the hymns at church (and tries to lead the songs, too), but the cutest is when he sings along with real songs. There's a song on a Japanese movie called My Neighbor Totoro that he LOVES. He sings it with Daddy a lot [big words are the ones he sings]: "HEY let's GO, HEY let's GO, I'm HAPPY as can BE. Let's go WALKING you and ME, ready, set, COME ON, let's GO!"

There's also a song I made up for him that I sing every night called Rock-a-baby (or Rockabee, as he calls it), and he has to hear it (and sing along) every time he goes to bed.

video

 He knows almost all the words, though he skips over some in the middle and just sings, "time close eyes, time sleep, sleep deep."

He's going to be  bumblebee for Halloween, and he LOVES his costume. We went trick-or-treating at my work on Friday, and he started off hesitantly, but caught on very quickly that this was free candy. He started trying to take handfuls from the buckets. Later that day, he also got a new truck sent up by his Grandma M--. Needless to say, he's been a very happy kiddo!


Sunday, September 4, 2011

Head, Shoulders, Knees and Toes


Along with learning animal sounds, learning "ACBCs" on the computer (he even started pointing out that the car license plate has "ACBCs," and his current favorite song is the ABC song), and attempting to learn that not every color is "ya-oh" (yellow), Asher is now well-versed in human anatomy. Behold:

Head (or as he says, Heh)
Eyes (Ice)
Nose (No)
Mouth (ma-oo)
Ears (ee-ah)
Cheeks (sheek)
Elbows (eh-bow)
Knees (nnee-- extra emphasis on the N)
Belly (beh-ee)
Yay for Asher!

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